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My motivators are not always healthy motivators.

For example, my motivator in my professional life is my want to be successful. I want success. Why is passion for my career unhealthy? Because I often let it take over other aspects of my life. “I’m working” is an often-uttered phrase even when I’m “off the clock.” I manage all things social media at work so I check Facebook and Twitter on a regular basis… when I’m not at work. It’s hard for me to detach.

My motivators to lose weight, eat right and exercise are not clear.

I want to eat right, but I also want to eat French fries.

HomefriesI want to exercise, but I don’t want to spend money on a gym membership, and I have very little desire to work out in my living room.

Index cards with workouts to take to the gym or on a run

I want to lose weight, but it was easier to buy a new pair of jeans instead of melt away the inches that prevent me from buttoning my old jeans.

My healthy motivators are not strong motivators if I can defeat them with cravings, laziness and new jeans.

But there is something that motivates me to accomplish nearly anything…

…and it’s money.

Greed shines in the heart motivated by money, but I guess I can be greedy for weight loss, and DietBet makes it possible.

DietBet is a social dieting game in which players bet they can lose a certain amount of weight within a certain time frame, and players put their money down as commitment. While the website,, claims that the game isn’t about making money, I’m only attracted to the game because of the opportunity to win big.

There must be a gambler living in my heart.

When I stumbled across DietBet in December by way of a Women’s Health Magazine article: Get Paid to Lose Weight, I immediately wanted to join the game.

Lose weight? Get paid? Um, yes.

The Transformer, the game I considered (and am stilling considering) joining, starts January 7, lasts six months and requires a $25/month bet.

DietBet screenshot

I’m not an impulsive person, which is probably why I’m not a gambler, so I went through all the fine print and made some calculations to see if it was worth the $150 investment. I calculated that the most I could win would be about $132. And that’s before the company takes its percentage. In order to “win big,” other people have to fail at losing weight.

And that made me sad in my heart.

I don’t want to bet that I can lose weight while secretly hoping other people fail so I can make money! Which might be why DietBet isn’t supposed to be about the money. It’s supposed to be about the community.

Looking at the game from the perspective of a social dieting platform, it resembles something like Weight Watchers, and it makes my heart a little less greedy and a lot less sad.

I am still considering joining The Transformer, but my thriftiness and inability to wish failure on others will likely prevail, and I’ll have to find some other motivator stronger than the pull of an unbeatable craving to lose weight.

What are your weight loss motivators? Have you ever participated in a DietBet game? What were your experiences?

Out with the old, in with the NO resolution year

Because I know I’ve been here before.

I think back to November 2010, when I wrote my first post, trying to remember why I started blogging…

skinnyshae began as a diet, fitness and beauty blog where I could complain about how exercise is hard, how dieting sucks and how I don’t know how to pluck my eyebrows.

The blog survived for just more than two years before I stopped…

I stopped exercising. I stopped cooking. I got rid of my gym membership. I started eating Ramen noodles. I stopped caring about how I looked. I stopped caring about how I felt.

It’s hard to remember why you started something when you have stopped everything…

…but I remember that exercise is hard, and I loved it. I know that my husband is a better chef, but I miss cooking. I remember that yoga made me feel amazing, and I know Ramen noodles are nearly the worst thing I can put in my body.

I miss blogging.

I think I’ll try again.

skinnyshae short hair style

I thought I’d start out with how my 2013 resolutions went…

Resolution #1: I still bite my nails, and I haven’t had a hair cut or trim since April.

Resolution #2: I do eat better. I eat my husband’s food. Way better than what I was eating! Exercising sorta… didn’t… yeah.

Resolution #3: I wanted to stop eating out of boredom… I didn’t.

Resolution #4: I can cook rice without it burning in water!

Resolution #5: I have no budget, but I did get a new job in 2014, which I really like.

I’d give myself a C for barely passing and because my hair still looks cute at least four days a week.

I’m not making 2014 New Year’s Resolutions because resolutions don’t work so I’m just going to keep doing what I do everyday and make small changes as I go… like doing squats when I brush my teeth or using lotion on my face so I don’t get icky dry skin.

Not hard.


And I don’t promise to do a single thing all year.

Time for Spring Greens

I haven’t been much of a cook lately, but on Friday, after work, I got a wild hair and decided to prepare all of the greens in my crisper.

Mostly because I knew they’d rot if I didn’t get them cooked and eaten soon.

What came out of my kitchen Friday night was nothing short of healthful and delicious. I didn’t use a recipe either! (I just started cooking so the ingredients are made up of my favorite flavors. Switch them up as you please.)

Spring Greens just in time for spring!

Roasted asparagus and steamed spinach

Cabbage Soup

Roasted Asparagus, Sauteed Spinach and Chicken Tenders with Green Cabbage Soup

  • 1 lb. chicken tenders
  • 1 bunch of asparagus, stemmed
  • 1 handful of fresh spinach, roughly chopped
  • 1 half of a head of cabbage, roughly chopped
  • 1 onion, chopped
  • 1 Tbs. scallions, chopped
  • 1 32-oz. carton beef broth (or chicken or vegetable… I had beef broth in stock)
  • 2 tsp. fish sauce, separated
  • 1 Tbs. soy sauce
  • 2 tsp. sesame oil, separated
  • 2 Tbs. olive oil, separated
  • 2 Tbs. minced garlic, separated
  • 2 shallots, chopped, separated
  • 2 tsp. white wine vinegar, separated
  • pinches and dashes of ground allspice, cayenne pepper, salt, pepper, ground mustard, celery salt and powdered garlic


Soup’s On!
Heat half the sesame oil in a stock pot over medium-ish heat. (Gas stove. I cannot measure how hot it is. The flame was about an inch high.)

Add the onions, half the garlic and cabbage, and allow to wilt slightly. Add pinches and dashes of ground allspice, cayenne pepper, salt, pepper, ground mustard, celery salt and powdered garlic. (You can never have too much garlic.) Add half the fish sauce, half the white wine vinegar and the soy sauce.

Once the vegetables have a shiny sheen and wilty texture, add the beef broth. Bring to a boil, and then reduce heat to low for a final 10-minute or so simmer. (BTW even after all of the simmering, the cabbage will still have a bit of crunch to it. We have not killed all the texture.)

Roasted Asparagus
Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F.

Line a baking sheet with foil, spray lightly with cooking spray and spread the asparagus spears across the sheet. Add one chopped shallot, and then dust with salt, pepper and garlic powder. Toss about to get full coverage.

Roast for 15-20 minutes. (I did not have a good look at the time on these. Check them occasionally to make sure they haven’t burned. They should come out with a rich green color instead of that brown-green they are when they go in.)

Sauteed Spinach and Chicken Tenders
Heat another tablespoon of olive oil in a saute pan. Season the chicken tenders with salt, pepper and garlic. Saute until cooked through. Add the other shallot and the other half of the garlic. Drizzle with the other half of fish sauce. Remove chicken and set aside.

Toss the handful of spinach in the chicken tender pan. Salt, and then drizzle with the other half of sesame oil. The spinach will not take long to wilt.

What are you left with?

Cabbage soup

Spring greens dinnerHeaven.

Hard Charge. Wichita. Hell.

For some unknown reason, I thought it would be a wonderful idea to run a four-mile obstacle course on one of the coldest April days ever.

Let me start by saying that it was NOT a wonderful idea. It might just have been the worst idea I have ever had.

Hard Charge. Hell.

I ran (read: lugged myself along in a limping jog) for four miles through mud, freezing cold water, barbed wire, sand and grass.*

*Why does the grass matter? The Allergy Obstacle. Sneezing. Watery eyes. More hell.

My husband, our friend, Bryan, and I ran the obstacle course together despite my pleas for them to run ahead of me because I would just hold them back from enjoying the CHARGE.

Hard Charge Wichita

Thankfully, they did stay with me. I needed both of them to help me over both of the 10-foot walls. Ten feet is twice my size! I am especially grateful for my dear husband who made sure I didn’t quit when I felt like I was close to death.

Hard Charge Wichita

Bryan and my husband destroyed the course. They probably could have gotten great time if it were not for them staying behind for me.

Hard Charge Wichita

The hubs is such a beef cake.

I ran out of gas at the halfway point. My shoes were filled with mud and gravel and my clothes were soaked. I felt like I weighed an extra 20 pounds. I shamelessly skipped three obstacles.

  • The monkey bars, which were like four inches thick. I have tiny hands. Who are they kidding?
  • The ice bath. Just no. No.
  • The cars because I don’t trust the Hard Charge folks to duct tape the windows properly. I’ve seen people fall through a car.

I completed all the other obstacles. Even the freezing cold water ones and the ones where I had to climb over things that were bigger than me.

Hard Charge Wichita

But I made it through! (With COPIOUS amounts of help from Matt and Bryan.)

Hard Charge WichitaHard Charge. Hell. Never again.
(But if we sign up for next year before May 5, then it’s like super cheap.)

Do you have any advice for training for an obstacle course, warrior dash or tough mudder?

The end of April

How do I begin a blog post after I haven’t blogged since March 16?

It. Is. Not. Easy.

I will begin by explaining why I have been absent all month…

April began well.

I got a new hair cut by this fabulous lady. I have bangs!
(BTW bangs give you oily forehead. Oily forehead means blackheads.)

New Hair by JKArtCoI took my sister-in-law, her husband and her two boys to Botanica for the Tulips, Fairies and Friends Festival, which was not too fun, but OMG look how cute the boys are.

Adorable BabyAdorable ToddlerHusband and I ate amazing chicken tortilla casserole with his family for his birthday the Sunday after Botanica, and then… Monday happened.

Monday happened, and I became a giant depressed sad person.

On Monday, April 8, my sweet kitty cat, Hobbes, was hit by a car.

Ivan and HobbesAnd he did not make it.

I was devastated. I started crying when I found out it happened, and I did not stop crying until a day later when I slept for approximately 15 hours.

On my husband’s actual birthday.

That week I also started feeling like absolute crap. Almost everything I have eaten lately has not set well in my belly… It’s probably stress.

And abject loss of cat sadness.

Of course when you lose a beloved pet, especially a sweet little orange one like Hobbes, you tend to do irrational things.

Like get another one to fill the empty hole in your heart.

New CatIsn’t he cute?

We can’t bring him home until he’s at least two pounds and completely weaned from mommy’s milk, but the humane society is taking good care of him until we can pick him up! I’m excited!

April was just a rough month for my husband and me.

Ivan had it pretty ruff, too.

Hard Life

Also in April… Hard Charge. (Hell.) But we’ll talk about that on another day. I promise I won’t be gone long.

Hello (from the other side of busy)


I am sorry.

Like really really sorry.

I have been swamped with work and work that’s not really work and family, which you could call work, and cooking (that I’m not sharing) and cleaning and friends.

And wow.

I have a million excuses for why I haven’t been blogging or sharing anything anywhere.

None of them are any good.

Maybe the best is that I’m doing some freelance writing, and it feels good. I get an itch to be a real reporter and a real writer every once in a while.

I know I’m not.

But it still feels pretty nice to contribute.

will be back soon. I will because I need to write here, too.

See you soon!

Blue Cheese and Spinach Meatloaf Muffins and Honey Glazed Carrots

I am not the meatloaf-maker in the household. However, I am the one who uses the muffin pan the most so this recipe was made for me.

Mini Muffins

Blue Cheese, Spinach Meat Loaf Muffins
(adapted from All Recipes)

  • 1 1/2 lbs. lean ground beef
  • 3/4 cup crumbled blue cheese
  • 1/2 cup diced onion
  • 1/2 cup Italian bread crumbs
  • 1/2 cup chopped fresh spinach
  • 2 eggs
  • 2 Tbs. Worcestershire sauce

Preheat an oven to 375 degrees F. Grease a large muffin pan with cooking spray.

Combine ground beef, blue cheese, onion, bread crumbs, spinach, eggs, and Worcestershire sauce (and a bunch of Italian seasoning) in a large bowl until well blended. Divide meat mixture evenly into the prepared muffin pan. Bake in the preheated oven until no longer pink in the center, about 30 minutes.

For the carrots, I mixed them with olive oil, honey, salt and pepper and roasted them with the meatloaf muffins.

Chipotle Black Bean Chili with Avocado Cream

I made the spiciest chili ever. But it was soooooooo good.

Spiciest Chili Ever

Chipotle Black Bean Chili with Avocado Cream
(adapted from Eats Well With Others and only adapted because I forgot some ingredients)

  • 2 tbsp olive oil
  • 4 large carrots, peeled and diced
  • 1 large onion, diced
  • chipotle peppers in adobo, minced (I used too much.)
  • 4 cup chicken broth
  • 1 15-oz. can black beans, rinsed
  • 1 small ripe avocado
  • 1/4 cup sour cream
  • 1 tsp lime juice
  • too much chili powder

Heat the oil in a 4 quart saucepan. Add the carrots and onions and cook until tender, stirring occasionally.

Add the peppers and cook for 1 minute.

Stir the broth and the beans into the pan and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to low and simmer for 25 minutes.

In the bowl of a food processor, combine the avocado, sour cream  and lime juice. Pulse until smooth.  Season to taste with salt.

Serve chili topped with the avocado cream.

I used waaaaaaay too much of my Husband’s homemade chili powder. Way too much. So spicy I had to cut the soup with milk and Parmesan.

Which are also optional ingredients. If you want.

Thunder, snow and lightening very VERY frightening!

I woke up at 4:30 a.m. to the sound of thunderlighteningsnow.

Thunderlighteningsnow is when it is snowing and thundering and lightening all at the same time while also being ridiculously cold.

This is what thunderlighteningsnow looks like, and it’s all up in Kansas’ business.

At 5:30 in the morning, I bundled up in two pairs of pants, two shirts, a sweatshirt, my boots and a water-resistant jacket. A hat that could have been a lot warmer and my husband’s gloves rounded out my SNOW SHOVELING outfit.

Our driveway was covered in at least a foot of snow and took an hour to shovel it. While it was still snowing. (An hour after my husband left for work, all the snow was back.)

Wichita KS Winter Storm

This is at 4:30 a.m.

Husband and I took turns shoveling and going inside to get warm. Of course, when we went inside, the snow that had accumulated on our clothing melted.

Water puddles everywhere! I am grateful for carpet.

We had to shovel the snow so Husband could go to work. Unlike me. Since I work at a bank, and all the bank branches are closed due to inclement weather, I did not have to go to work today! <—Adult snow day.

Downtown Wichita snow scene

Yesterday at work. No work for Shae today!

Husband, however, cannot NOT go to work because hospitals don’t close. Poo.

So Ivan and I have to play in the snow without Husband, and play in the snow we shall. Well, he shall.

Wichita KS Winter Storm

Wichita KS Winter Storm

This is at 7 a.m.

Wichita KS Winter Storm

Wichita KS Winter Storm

This is at 9 a.m.

Ivan isn’t always the biggest fan of weather… unless it’s sunny and awesome… but he jumped around like a moron in the snow. He really doesn’t understand why his footies are cold, but he does understand that eating snow is almost like drinking water.

Which he’s all about.

I am going to spend the rest of my snow day feeling bad for my husband and catching up on blogging, reading and menu planning.

OH! And check out the deathcicles hanging from my house!


Crock Pot Cashew Chicken

I have a problem with crock pots.

Most crock pot recipes have to cook for 8-9 hours, which means I have to wake up extra early to prepare the meal before work.

I don’t wake up early. Let alone extra early.

But, on the weekends, I do not have to wake up early because I don’t have to go to work.

Crock pot recipes are also way better when the 8-9 hours is 3-4 hours.

Crock Pot Cashew Chicken Recipe

Crock Pot Cashew Chicken
(adapted from Six Sisters’ Stuff)

  • 2 lbs. boneless, skinless chicken breasts
  • 1/4 cup all-purpose flour
  • 1 Tbs. olive oil
  • 1/4 cup soy sauce
  • 2 Tbs. rice wine vinegar
  • 2 Tbs. ketchup
  • 1 Tbs. brown sugar
  • 1 Tbs. minced garlic
  • 1/2 tsp. ground ginger
  • 1/2 tsp. red pepper flakes
  • 1/4 cup cashews (plus extra if you like cashews)
  • salt and pepper

Shake the chicken breasts in a bag with the flour, salt and pepper. Combine the soy sauce, vinegar, ketchup, brown sugar, garlic, ginger, red pepper flakes and more salt and pepper.


Brown chicken for two minutes on each side, and then place the chicken in the crock pot. Pour the sauce mixture over the chicken in the crock pot.

Cook for 3-4 on low. Add cashews to the crock pot near the end of cooking so they’re suuuuper flavored.

Serve over rice, white or brown, or quinoa… or some other grain.

Cashew Chicken RecipeSuccessful dinner. (Really good news because I’ve had quite a few misses recently.)